A TWIN FLAME connection can be hardly verbalized, but you KNOW it in your heart that this person is your twin flame even without saying any words...the good thing about this connection is when you see this person, you''ll see the beauty in you, the bad and the flaw that you will need to work on..you don't have to romanticize this connection or over-idealized this person as a perfect fit of put it as a standard to any other relationships as twin flame is purely spiritual, and you have to let go of your expectations. the RECOGNITION may not be instantaneous, but as you GROW and LEARN spiritually, you will recognize this person..you cry because you see yourself in another body..and you cry because of the yearning, and the PAIN that yo feel is the mark of your REMEMBERING after your have been split apart from your twin soul eons ago..the only way that both of you can merge as one is to LOVE YOURSELF and let go of your own fears and ego....